My early memories involve us bumping into one another at the tents of NY Fashion Week, tech events and anything glam and amazing. We would tell our life stories in a matter of minutes or maybe a few hours! To know her is to be drawn to her and recently I love that we have been able to hang out more! If you heard my radio interview with her earlier this year then you know that Shoshi (Yolanda Shoshana) is the Modern Day Courtesan and Luscious Lifestyle Diva! She teaches us how to still retain our natural sexiness and how to initiate it in a world where many times our focuses are all over the place. Bi weekly she will share her sexy insights with us and I'm so happy that she is on board! In keeping with her name, her segments are Keeping it Luscious! Last week she tackled the messages found in Sexy and the City. Today she breaks out the ways that you can ensure that sexy stays in your relationships.

When in a relationships, some things become routine. Let’s admit it, after awhile, a routine can be so boring. Having a few things up your “bag of tricks” will drive your partner wild and keep a spark in the relationship! Here are some things for can keep the fire burning. Be ready because it is going to get hot.

Sneak Attack - The sneak attack is when you go and simply jump on your man when he least expects it. For example if he likes to watch a particular show or he likes spots during a commercial or half time, just go right up and give him a BJ. Time it right so you are finishing up right as the show is back, look him in the eye, say thank you. Then go back to doing whatever is it you were doing like nothing ever happened. It will blow his mind and a few other things.

Get in the kitchen and cook! - Cooking your boo a meal is a real turn on. If you are normally not one who cooks do not let the thought of rolling up your sleeves and getting in the kitchen overwhelm you. There are many easy recipes you will be able to master, just follow the directions. So put on an apron and get your Martha Stewart on. As my southern momma always says “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”

Keep rocking the sexy - Just because you get a man does not mean you are suppose to let yourself go. One of the main complaints men have about being in a relationship is that the girl let’s herself go and she stops getting dressed up. When you have a man stay on top of your game, keep looking your best that is how you got him after all isn't it? Plus, looking good means, he will always have to stay on top of his game to be with you!

Learn about sports - Men think it is hot when they can talk to a woman about sports and she does not roll her eyes, seem bored, or ask the same question. Take the time to learn some things about his favorite spots, it will surprise him and make him happy that you have taken an interest.

Role Play - It goes without saying that women like to role play, but men are always good to go if you suggest role playing. You might even find out about some secret desires he has been storing up. Some of the best role play scenarios are cop and hooker, doctor and nurse, boss and secretary, and last but not least stranger one night stand.

Watch adult movies with him - Most men watch adult films; there is no getting around this fact. Instead of making him sneak around to get his sexy film fix, I suggest that you watch it together. You just might actually enjoy watching the movie. Plus the great thing about watching those types of films is you will be able to see what the professionals are doing, it’s just more techniques you can add to your bag of tricks.

Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a media personality, courtesan coach, sensualist, speaker, writer living in New York City known as the Luscious Lifestyle Diva. Self growth and following her bliss has always been a key part of her life. Shoshi followed her entrepreneur spirit by starting a lifestyle company that engages the senses to help people live lusciously. The services include: courtesan coaching™,workshops/classes, pleasure planning, image consulting, empowerment through media, wedding officiating, etc. She is the founder of the School of Courtisane Moderne, a modern day courtesan school which teaches women the art of seduction. She also is the creatrix and sensualist of luscious creams, potions, etc. that helps women unleash their inner courtesan!