My early memories involve us bumping into one another at the tents of NY Fashion Week, tech events and anything glam and amazing. We would tell our life stories in a matter of minutes or maybe a few hours! To know her is to be drawn to her and recently I love that we have been able to hang out more! If you heard my radio interview with her earlier this year then you know that Shoshi (Yolanda Shoshana) is the Modern Day Courtesan and Luscious Lifestyle Diva! She teaches us how to still retain our natural sexiness and how to initiate it in a world where many times our focuses are all over the place. Bi weekly she will share her sexy insights with us and I'm so happy that she is on board! In keeping with her name, her segments are Keeping it Luscious! Last time she talked about the power of love and how it changes elements in our lives and what it means when we are in it and/or fall out of it. Today she talks about the importance of positions tried and true and those that are new and of course being able to master them.

Every now and then, it is easy to fall into a dull sex routine. If you don’t know what I am talking about, high five girl, but if you do know what I am talking about, it’s time to turn up the heat. One of the best ways to add fire to the boudoir is trying new positions. It can be just the thing to add adventure, fire, and desire. Here are some positions that you can bring out of your bag of tricks. Be sure not to give them all up at once. Throw a new move in every now and then so that you keep your boo guessing about what you will do next.

The Huggie Bear

This is a fun position that allows you to watch the action and be a part of the action, which is great for the voyeur in you. First of all start with your guy sitting on a chair/bed (his feet should be firmly on the ground) with his knees bent and his legs slightly spread, he should be leaning back with his arms outstretched and resting on the edge of the chair/bed. Now comes the good part, straddle him. Face him and lower yourself onto his penis, while holding on to him for support. Keep your knees bent and feet flat as you move up and down. Work it!

Deep Stick

If you are the type that likes it deep, you will love this move. Lie on your back with your legs resting on the shoulders of your partner, who will enter you from a kneeling position. Now your partner can penetrate with everything they've got. What’s fabulous about this position is that is can be done almost anywhere and everywhere. Have pillows handy just in case you need to make up for any genital distance.

The Screw

You can never go wrong with the screw; the name alone turns up the heat! You lie on your side at the edge of a bed or kitchen table (or wherever you want to get down) while your partner enters you from the edge side. It’s all about how you rotate. The rotated penetration angle is what gives this position its name and title as one of the hottest positions around.

Lap Dance

This is an oldie but goodie, because there is nothing finer than giving a good lap dance. It is one of the top positions that I have my clients do. Think about it, if a lap dance takes a turn into hot passionate lovin’, you will be crowned a Queen. Wear your sexiest lingerie and play some seductive tunes. Use a chair and then straddle him as you lean back. Tease and play as you slowly begin to extend your legs, one at a time, until your ankles are resting on his shoulders. Proceed with intercourse. You go girl!

Downward Dog

Who says the downward dog is just a yoga pose? Men tend to love doing it doggie style, so this is a good one to incorporate into your repertoire. You will lie facedown on the bed with your hips raised, use a pillow if you plan on going for awhile or you will be so uncomfortable. Your man will enter from behind, which will enable him to thrust deeper and hit the hard-to-reach pleasure zones which need some love too.

Yolanda Shoshana “Shoshi” is a media personality, courtesan coach, sensualist, speaker, writer living in New York City known as the Luscious Lifestyle Diva. Self growth and following her bliss has always been a key part of her life. Shoshi followed her entrepreneur spirit by starting a lifestyle company that engages the senses to help people live lusciously. The services include: courtesan coaching™,workshops/classes, pleasure planning, image consulting, empowerment through media, wedding officiating, etc. She is the founder of the School of Courtisane Moderne, a modern day courtesan school which teaches women the art of seduction. She also is the creatrix and sensualist of luscious creams, potions, etc. that helps women unleash their inner courtesan!